What if the real source of chaos in your life is not your schedule, your strategy, or your systems, but the fact that you have never truly identified what you stand for? In this powerful episode, Cary sits down with Rich Christiansen, co-founder of 51 businesses, bestselling author, and one of the most respected values-based mentors in the world, to walk through the eight-step values workbook framework Rich has used privately with billionaires, legacy families, and high-performing entrepreneurs for over 15 years.Rich breaks down everything from uncovering your real core values using seven generation thinking, to identifying the trash can values you inherited but never chose, to learning how to screen the people in your life using preloaded values-based questions. He also shares deeply personal stories including the moment his 240-pound son stopped him mid-game to hold him accountable to his own family ethos, and a billionaire client who wept because he had 10,000 contacts and not one true blood brother.